There's no "should"; it's up to you. Various implementations will have different performance characteristics, take various amounts of time to implement, understand, and get right. This is typical for software development as a whole, in my opinion.
I would probably first try having a global list of all trie nodes so far created, and representing the child-pointers in each node as a list of indices into the global list. Having a dictionary just to represent the child linking feels too heavy-weight, to me.