Maybe... :
datestamp=yyyy-MM-dd/HH:mm:ss.SSS/zzz
layout=%d{${datestamp}} ms=%-4r [%t] %-5p %l %n%m %n%n
# infoFile
log4j.appender.infoFile=org.apache.log4j.RollingFileAppender
log4j.appender.infoFile.File=${MY_HOME}/logs/message.log
log4j.appender.infoFile.layout=org.apache.log4j.PatternLayout
log4j.appender.infoFile.layout.ConversionPattern=${layout}