very simple solution for this is by using useRef
hook
const buttonRef = useRef();
const disableButton = () =>{
buttonRef.current.disabled = true; // this disables the button
}
<button
className="btn btn-primary mt-2"
ref={buttonRef}
onClick={disableButton}
>
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</button>
Similarly you can enable the button by using buttonRef.current.disabled = false