The server at x3.chatforyoursite.com
needs to output the following header:
Access-Control-Allow-Origin: http://www.example.com
Where http://www.example.com
is your website address. You should check your settings on chatforyoursite.com
to see if you can enable this - if not their technical support would probably be the best way to resolve this. However to answer your question, you need the remote site to allow your site to access AJAX responses client side.