[emacs] How do I control how Emacs makes backup files?

Another way of configuring backup options is via the Customize interface. Enter:

M-x customize-group

And then at the Customize group: prompt enter backup.

If you scroll to the bottom of the buffer you'll see Backup Directory Alist. Click Show Value and set the first entry of the list as follows:

Regexp matching filename: .*
Backup directory name: /path/to/your/backup/dir

Alternatively, you can turn backups off my setting Make Backup Files to off.

If you don't want Emacs to automatically edit your .emacs file you'll want to set up a customisations file.