[java] How to know if other threads have finished?

Many things have been changed in last 6 years on multi-threading front.

Instead of using join() and lock API, you can use

1.ExecutorService invokeAll() API

Executes the given tasks, returning a list of Futures holding their status and results when all complete.

2.CountDownLatch

A synchronization aid that allows one or more threads to wait until a set of operations being performed in other threads completes.

A CountDownLatch is initialized with a given count. The await methods block until the current count reaches zero due to invocations of the countDown() method, after which all waiting threads are released and any subsequent invocations of await return immediately. This is a one-shot phenomenon -- the count cannot be reset. If you need a version that resets the count, consider using a CyclicBarrier.

3.ForkJoinPool or newWorkStealingPool() in Executors is other way

4.Iterate through all Future tasks from submit on ExecutorService and check the status with blocking call get() on Future object

Have a look at related SE questions:

How to wait for a thread that spawns it's own thread?

Executors: How to synchronously wait until all tasks have finished if tasks are created recursively?