I am having the same problem. I also login using oauth (I am using RubyOnRails), but for logout, I do it with JavaScript using a link like this:
<a href="/logout" onclick="FB.logout();">Logout</a>
This first calls the onclick
function and performs a logout on facebook, and then the normal /logout
function of my site is called.
Though I would prefer a serverside solution as well, but at least it does what I want, it logs me out on both sites.
I am also quite new to the Facebook integration stuff and played around the first time with it, but my general feeling is that the documentation is pretty spread all over the place with lots of outdated stuff.