[c++] How to correctly implement custom iterators and const_iterators?

They often forget that iterator must convert to const_iterator but not the other way around. Here is a way to do that:

template<class T, class Tag = void>
class IntrusiveSlistIterator
   : public std::iterator<std::forward_iterator_tag, T>
{
    typedef SlistNode<Tag> Node;
    Node* node_;

public:
    IntrusiveSlistIterator(Node* node);

    T& operator*() const;
    T* operator->() const;

    IntrusiveSlistIterator& operator++();
    IntrusiveSlistIterator operator++(int);

    friend bool operator==(IntrusiveSlistIterator a, IntrusiveSlistIterator b);
    friend bool operator!=(IntrusiveSlistIterator a, IntrusiveSlistIterator b);

    // one way conversion: iterator -> const_iterator
    operator IntrusiveSlistIterator<T const, Tag>() const;
};

In the above notice how IntrusiveSlistIterator<T> converts to IntrusiveSlistIterator<T const>. If T is already const this conversion never gets used.