[c++] How to correctly implement custom iterators and const_iterators?

I don't know if Boost has anything that would help.

My preferred pattern is simple: take a template argument which is equal to value_type, either const qualified or not. If necessary, also a node type. Then, well, everything kind of falls into place.

Just remember to parameterize (template-ize) everything that needs to be, including the copy constructor and operator==. For the most part, the semantics of const will create correct behavior.

template< class ValueType, class NodeType >
struct my_iterator
 : std::iterator< std::bidirectional_iterator_tag, T > {
    ValueType &operator*() { return cur->payload; }

    template< class VT2, class NT2 >
    friend bool operator==
        ( my_iterator const &lhs, my_iterator< VT2, NT2 > const &rhs );

    // etc.

private:
    NodeType *cur;

    friend class my_container;
    my_iterator( NodeType * ); // private constructor for begin, end
};

typedef my_iterator< T, my_node< T > > iterator;
typedef my_iterator< T const, my_node< T > const > const_iterator;