this is my alternative solution, instead of a List of Map, i'm using a Map of List. Tested on tables of 5000 elements, on a remote db, times are around 350ms for eiter method.
private Map<String, List<Object>> resultSetToArrayList(ResultSet rs) throws SQLException {
ResultSetMetaData md = rs.getMetaData();
int columns = md.getColumnCount();
Map<String, List<Object>> map = new HashMap<>(columns);
for (int i = 1; i <= columns; ++i) {
map.put(md.getColumnName(i), new ArrayList<>());
}
while (rs.next()) {
for (int i = 1; i <= columns; ++i) {
map.get(md.getColumnName(i)).add(rs.getObject(i));
}
}
return map;
}