open cmd
type in netstat -a -n -o
find TCP [the IP address]:[port number] .... #[target_PID]#
(ditto for UDP)
(Btw, kill [target_PID]
didn't work for me)
CTRL+ALT+DELETE and choose "start task manager"
Click on "Processes" tab
Enable "PID" column by going to: View > Select Columns > Check the box for PID
Find the PID of interest and "END PROCESS"
Now you can rerun the server on [the IP address]:[port number] without a problem