[sql-server] SQL Server - find nth occurrence in a string

DECLARE @str AS VARCHAR(100)
SET @str='1,2  , 3,   4,   5,6'
SELECT COALESCE(LTRIM(CAST(('<X>'+REPLACE(@str,',' ,'</X><X>')+'</X>') AS XML).value('(/X)[1]', 'varchar(128)')), ''),
       COALESCE(LTRIM(CAST(('<X>'+REPLACE(@str,',' ,'</X><X>')+'</X>') AS XML).value('(/X)[2]', 'varchar(128)')), ''),
       COALESCE(LTRIM(CAST(('<X>'+REPLACE(@str,',' ,'</X><X>')+'</X>') AS XML).value('(/X)[3]', 'varchar(128)')), ''),
       COALESCE(LTRIM(CAST(('<X>'+REPLACE(@str,',' ,'</X><X>')+'</X>') AS XML).value('(/X)[4]', 'varchar(128)')), ''),
       COALESCE(LTRIM(CAST(('<X>'+REPLACE(@str,',' ,'</X><X>')+'</X>') AS XML).value('(/X)[5]', 'varchar(128)')), ''),
       COALESCE(LTRIM(CAST(('<X>'+REPLACE(@str,',' ,'</X><X>')+'</X>') AS XML).value('(/X)[6]', 'varchar(128)')), ''),
       COALESCE(LTRIM(CAST(('<X>'+REPLACE(@str,',' ,'</X><X>')+'</X>') AS XML).value('(/X)[7]', 'varchar(128)')), ''),
       COALESCE(LTRIM(CAST(('<X>'+REPLACE(@str,',' ,'</X><X>')+'</X>') AS XML).value('(/X)[8]', 'varchar(128)')), ''),
       COALESCE(LTRIM(CAST(('<X>'+REPLACE(@str,',' ,'</X><X>')+'</X>') AS XML).value('(/X)[9]', 'varchar(128)')), '')