Why this error is so boresome and noisy, just because it can occur in varied situation.
I have done all approchs above here, and still being sucked. So make sure u have done the same as me before browsing downward.
Maybe I am not able to fix ur situation instantly, but I can point out a direction or thinking to u(The one who finally slide down here). I have started to ponder the error of my running program occurring after I made sure that the instance name is clearly right and set my database to allow remote control following the methods above. After then, I suspected something wrong happening in my code snippet of SQL connection.
It works for me with pondering what exactly happen in the process of connection.Hope my thinking will lead u to kill ur error.