About your command line:
root@debian:/# sudo iptables -A INPUT -p tcp --dport 3306 --jump ACCEPT
root@debian:/# iptables-save
You are already authenticated as root
so sudo
is redundant there.
You are missing the -j
or --jump
just before the ACCEPT
parameter (just tought that was a typo and you are inserting it correctly).
About yout question:
If you are inserting the iptables
rule correctly as you pointed it in the question, maybe the issue is related to the hypervisor (virtual machine provider) you are using.
If you provide the hypervisor name (VirtualBox, VMWare?) I can further guide you on this but here are some suggestions you can try first:
check your vmachine network settings and:
if it is set to NAT, then you won't be able to connect from your base machine to the vmachine.
if it is set to Hosted, you have to configure first its network settings, it is usually to provide them an IP in the range 192.168.56.0/24, since is the default the hypervisors use for this.
if it is set to Bridge, same as Hosted but you can configure it whenever IP range makes sense for you configuration.
Hope this helps.