[r] Select the top N values by group

If there were a tie at the fourth position for mtcars$mpg then this should return all the ties:

top_mpg <- mtcars[ mtcars$mpg >= mtcars$mpg[order(mtcars$mpg, decreasing=TRUE)][4] , ]

> top_mpg
                mpg cyl disp  hp drat    wt  qsec vs am gear carb
Fiat 128       32.4   4 78.7  66 4.08 2.200 19.47  1  1    4    1
Honda Civic    30.4   4 75.7  52 4.93 1.615 18.52  1  1    4    2
Toyota Corolla 33.9   4 71.1  65 4.22 1.835 19.90  1  1    4    1
Lotus Europa   30.4   4 95.1 113 3.77 1.513 16.90  1  1    5    2

Since there is a tie at the 3-4 position you can test it by changing 4 to a 3, and it still returns 4 items. This is logical indexing and you might need to add a clause that removes the NA's or wrap which() around the logical expression. It's not much more difficult to do this "by" cyl:

 Reduce(rbind,  by(mtcars, mtcars$cyl, 
        function(d) d[ d$mpg >= d$mpg[order(d$mpg, decreasing=TRUE)][4] , ]) )
#-------------
                   mpg cyl  disp  hp drat    wt  qsec vs am gear carb
Fiat 128          32.4   4  78.7  66 4.08 2.200 19.47  1  1    4    1
Honda Civic       30.4   4  75.7  52 4.93 1.615 18.52  1  1    4    2
Toyota Corolla    33.9   4  71.1  65 4.22 1.835 19.90  1  1    4    1
Lotus Europa      30.4   4  95.1 113 3.77 1.513 16.90  1  1    5    2
Mazda RX4         21.0   6 160.0 110 3.90 2.620 16.46  0  1    4    4
Mazda RX4 Wag     21.0   6 160.0 110 3.90 2.875 17.02  0  1    4    4
Hornet 4 Drive    21.4   6 258.0 110 3.08 3.215 19.44  1  0    3    1
Ferrari Dino      19.7   6 145.0 175 3.62 2.770 15.50  0  1    5    6
Hornet Sportabout 18.7   8 360.0 175 3.15 3.440 17.02  0  0    3    2
Merc 450SE        16.4   8 275.8 180 3.07 4.070 17.40  0  0    3    3
Merc 450SL        17.3   8 275.8 180 3.07 3.730 17.60  0  0    3    3
Pontiac Firebird  19.2   8 400.0 175 3.08 3.845 17.05  0  0    3    2

Incorporating my suggestion to @Ista:

Reduce(rbind,  by(mtcars, mtcars$cyl, function(d) d[ d$mpg <= sort( d$mpg )[3] , ]) )