Create a UNIQUE
constraint on your subs_email
column, if one does not already exist:
ALTER TABLE subs ADD UNIQUE (subs_email)
Use INSERT ... ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE
:
INSERT INTO subs
(subs_name, subs_email, subs_birthday)
VALUES
(?, ?, ?)
ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE
subs_name = VALUES(subs_name),
subs_birthday = VALUES(subs_birthday)
You can use the VALUES(col_name) function in the UPDATE clause to refer to column values from the INSERT portion of the INSERT ... ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE - dev.mysql.com